What if there’s a different way to be a man in today’s world?
Welcome to a monthly gathering for conscious men from around the world who are ready to ask the questions you’ve been told not to ask—and the questions you’ve always desired to ask.
Release
Judgment
The kind that keeps you small and separate from yourself
Discover the
Quiet Confidence
That comes from actually honouring who you are
Build Genuine Connections
With other men who get it—
who aren’t performing either
No theory. No fixing you. No trying to make you into something you’re not. Just practical work that creates real shifts.
Start where you are. Go as deep as you choose.
LIBRARY
Tier 1
In this space, you are free to explore at your own pace on
The Gentle-Man's Substack
LOUNGE
Tier 2
Awaken the gentleman within!
This is your Deep Dive on
The Gentle-Man's Substack
LEGACY
Tier 3
Learn to own your shit!
Raw, live and real.
For Gentleman ONLY
All you need to know below 👇🏼
The Gentle-Man is a space without judgment, without fixing, without shoulds and should-nots.
Become a Legacy Member
What you’ll experience each month?
A judgment-free space designed specifically for Men. Practical, proven tools from Access Consciousness. A community of other gentlemen walking this path. Monthly conversations that translate into tangible change in your real life.
LEGACY MEMBERSHIP
FOR GENTLEMEN ONLY
€25
per month
EUR €25 | USD $30 | ZAR R500
🎩 1 Live call per month with Graeme
🎩 Curated key notes & tools from each call
🎩 Private members group
🎩 Special guests & content
🎩 Full recordings library (including all previous calls)
Legacy is for Men who are ready to own their choices, show up every month,
and be radically honest with themselves.
📣 STARTING 15th JANUARY 2026 📣
Webinar Call
Curated Key Notes
Clearings, Tools & Processes
Community
Audio & Video Recordings
Membership T&C's
The gap is real, isn’t it?
Between the man you’re expected to be and the man you actually are… Between what works on the surface and what feels true underneath. Between the version you perform and the version that would feel like coming home.
You know that feeling—those rare moments when you drop the mask, when you stop performing, when you’re just… yourself. What if those moments could become your everyday reality instead of fleeting exceptions?
Here’s what most men never talk about
The exhaustion of being what others expect. The loneliness of keeping parts of yourself hidden. The confusion of receiving contradictory messages about who you’re supposed to be—strong but not aggressive, confident but not arrogant, sexual but not predatory, vulnerable but still powerful.
What if you didn’t have to figure this out alone?
This is a space where you don’t have to
With other men who genuinely understand the weight of expectation you’re experiencing and actually desire something real. Where asking for help isn’t weakness. Where vulnerability is treated as the strength it actually is. Where the complexity of being a conscious man in today’s world is honoured, not judged.
We’ll gather monthly to explore what authentic masculinity actually looks like when you’re no longer pretending.
What would change if you could finally like the man looking back at you in the mirror?
What would become possible if you released the judgment you carry—especially the judgment of yourself? What if the limiting beliefs you’ve been running about what a man “should” be could simply dissolve?
What if there was a community of other men asking the same questions, walking the same path, genuinely having your back?
A bit about Graeme
and how I got here
Graeme Crosskill
Access Consciousness Certified Facilitator
TheGentle-Man.com
I’m excited and genuinely humbled to say that I am finally
starting to live and come alive!
I have been a Certified Facilitator with Access Consciousness since 2014. Over the past year, I have found myself on a truly profound journey—a transformative process that has touched every aspect of my life and living. And let me tell you, it hasn’t been a gentle stroll through a meadow.
Diving into this space required a level of vulnerability and honesty I genuinely didn’t think I had. I mean, who really wants to look at all the ‘ugly stuff’, right? And yet, somehow, with the tools of Access Consciousness and the incredible support and care I found along the way, I was led further and deeper than I could have ever imagined.
Pricing & Subscription Details:
Welcome to The Gentle-Man Legacy Membership.
*Important* Kindly note that Library and Lounge memberships are on Substack - Discover here.
Legacy Fee
EUR €25
per month
via Kajabi
Legacy Fee
USD $30
per month
via Kajabi
Legacy Fee
ZAR R500
per month
via Kajabi
Membership T&C's:
- The Gentle-Man Legacy Membership is available in multiple currencies (EUR, USD, and ZAR). Choose your preferred currency at checkout. All charges, renewals, and receipts will be processed in the currency you selected at the point of sign-up.
- These are special launch prices and will increase in the near future. You will be grandfathered in as long as you stay an active member
- Your membership is a monthly subscription that automatically renews on the anniversary of your initial sign-up date
- You may cancel your TGM membership at any time.
For a full terms, condition, cancellation and refund policies please see here - Full T&C's
Highly Recommended!
RETURN OF THE GENTLEMAN
THE GENTLEMEN'S CLUB
We will be using the Access Clearing Statement, please watch the video above to have clarity and awareness around this powerful tool.
If you have not yet heard about Access Bars, again watch the video above and find a Bars Practitioner near you --> Find Practitioner
If you have any questions, feel free contact Graeme - we are always happy to answer any questions!
And if you don’t see our email or receive a follow-up, please reach out directly.
ALL OF LIFE COMES TO US WITH EASE, JOY & GLORY
The Gentle-Man
LIBRARY
In this space, you are free to explore at your own pace on
The Gentle-Man's Substack
Articles designed with
- Tools ,
- Reflections,
- and Inspirations
on being and becoming the gentleman you desire to be.
LOUNGE
Welcome to awakening the gentleman within build on
Honour, Trust, Allowance, Gratitude, and Vulnerability
This is your Deep Dive on
The Gentle-Man's Substack
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- Advanced Audios
- Special Guest Video/Podcast
- Packed with actual tools & processes
- Curated for deep change
